Why do so many chicks think men are self-absorbed and demeaning to women?

Well you are most definitely not a gentlemen if you keep referring stranger girls you are attracted to as lil' cutie, foxier, Darline', hot 'lil number, babes, objects, doll face, or gorgeous which you clearly all used in your question. You are acting like a player and trying to flirt to much. You are so conceded that you think she was as you call 'pretending' to be turned off have you ever considered maybe not every single women is going to like you. You think you should have a talk show, seriously? Not to mention how sick you are. Asking for numbers, playing with your chest hair. And looking at your more recent questions you are more of a player than I thought, asking about calling cars for women and another one of your questions to answer no, going into your ex gf's bedroom and waking her up with a kiss wouldn't make her forgive or go out with. There is something wrong with. Anyway there are your answers and if I were you I would seriously think about this.