Whats the best way to scare the living s**t out of someone. also whats the best way to attack?

I must say you have a very bad way of addressing your problems. There is no way that they are just going to stop what they're doing and apologize after you scare the CRAP out of them. They'll probably just sue you for what you did and let the law take care of it, or they'll retaliate the way you retaliated. If they're really the potheads that you make them seem like they are, they'll probably just kill you or something. But you could just avoid a lot of trouble by simply not ociating with them any more and being as kind to them as possible, and doing something so unexpectedly nice that it will just break them. Trust me, I 've tried this approach, and it works.