I got this girl problem its ALOT please help?

Ok Well i started likeing this girl like a month ago. Well my freind wanted to know who and i didnt wana tell him but i did anyways. And then he tells me he likes the same girl. Btw my freinds name is Justin and the girl that we like is called Victoria. So anyways he tells her that i like her and then she tells him that she likes me. And he is heart broken and ****. So then i get her number and we start talking. Yeah so my type that i like is a girl whos spanish and whos doesnt like the attention on her and who is shy and quiet type who doesnt do much. And she was all of that. So we start texting and stuff and we both are shy so it takes us awhile to talk in person. So we do and she starts blushing and i love when she does. But before we met in person its spring break and we just texted everyday and in the middle of spring break shes like i got accepted to south dade and im like awww man i wanted u to go to this school called keys gate. And she texts me every morning. and i like that so then shes like i dont think this will work out because we are going to differnt high schools next year and we might not see each other that much. And im like wtf and i told her some sweet romantic **** and tell her that we can see each other in the weekends. [Btw we didnt go out yet] So yeah every1 is telling me to ask her out ask her out. But i wanted to wait. Then like 2 days later shes like i dont know i dont like u that much anymore and im like wtf how can u stop liekign a person over a text. And shes like idk. So then we go back to school and then she looks at me and ****. So then after school she texts me saying she likes me again. So then we text and so on and on. And then we get close and shes like i think this guy is cute and this guy too and im like wtf u think every1 is cute and shes like that doesnt mean i will go out with them... So then i ignore it and i tell her i was gonna surprise her and ask her out and do other stuff so the next day she was kinda avoiding me. And then agian im like why were u avoiding me and that i was gonna do it the next day. Then she tells me this : "I like YOU ALOT but i found out that i might have a chance with this guy named James and hes really special to me and this is a big deal i liked him for 3 years" And im like wow and ****. So then i try to get her back and **** and she tells me she kinda likes me. Then 1 day later shes like i dont like u anymore. And tells me to get over her and to move on. And im like wow u didnt evan say sorry and shes like i dont think i should apologize for moveing on... So then i text her and she seems different. Like now she doesnt text me first or message me first on msn anymore and im like why dont u do that anymore shes like guys arae suppose to msg me first. So then shes like guys are suppose to msg girls first. And im like wow so anyways i keep texting her first and wait for her to text back. I dont think im obsessed and stuff but in the weekdays i have NOTHING to do at all like i can only watch tv for 2 hours i cant play video games or go on the computer or do stuff in the weekdays so im literally sitting there in my bed bored out of my mind and texting is the only thing i can do. If i had something better to do i wouldnt text her as much. So yeah she started acting differntly in texting she didnt text me first and she didnt act like she loved texting me as she used too. I felt like i wasnt the number 1 guy on her mind anymore people are telling me to get over her but i see her everyday. I try to ignore her and dont text her but my bordness and temptations just come over mee and i just talk to her. So then its been a week and james hasnt asked her out yet and im like wtf. And Justin got a gf and stuff but they broke up like 1 week after they went out. So then she had a b-day party and i didnt want to go becasue i would get jealous if james was there and i would be jealous the whole time. So after the party on facebook every1 is putting Great party victoria and im like wow it must be a good party. Then victoria tells me that she kissed Justin and that