Why are men so complicated?

If anyone remembers answering my question about that guy before, here is another one for you. Almost everyone was wrong before. He didn't want only to hook up or anything like that. He came and stayed for a few days over exodus, and he is now back at Ft. Bragg. Next week he finds out if he is deploying to Iraq, and the possibilities are highly likely. We talked about dating, and he says he can't right now. He is banking on deploying, and if he deploys he doesn't want to date me until he comes home. Well, now I'm starting to wonder if there is anything more then that, and he says there isn't. I am worried to that now that he is at Bragg he might meet some new girl down there. He isn't the type to just go out and pick up chicks, but he is a man. And what about if he doesn't deploy and stays at Bragg, would we date then? How frustrating.